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Deer Island girl had pierced ears
By adamg on Thu, 07/09/2015 - 11:08am
Authorities today released an updated computer-generated image of the girl, about 4, whose body was found wrapped in a blanket inside a plastic bag on Deer Island last month.
The girl remains unidentified. Anybody who might have information can contact State Police at 617-727-8817 or 617-820-2121.
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More likely Hispanic
now that its known her ears were pierced. More culturally common. I hope DNA testing can also reveal more information about the racial makeup of the girl to help target media campaigns to languages and communities and find her identity.
I agree
I agree with you too, I think she's Latino/Hispanic and not white. She looks very similar to the daughters of the Latino family next door and has features to match (but no, not the same girl)
and gosh, why do I tear up when I see this picture? Still very saddened by this. Such a pretty girl :(
Not an either/or situation
If she is Hispanic, that isn't her race but her ethnicity.
Note that people may describe themselves as "white" and "hispanic" or "black" and "hispanic".
People in Spain are Hispanic, and most are whiter than I am.
yeah you are right
Yes you are correct. Okay rephrase.. she is probably from Hispanic descent.
But to me "white" means Caucasian (because I am 'white') but OK. I stand corrected.
Have come into contact with
Have come into contact with some Mexican folks who were more Cabot or Lodge (and quick to point it out) than the Athenaeum Charter Members 'round these parts.
There are Black Hispanics and White Hispanics.
My Honduran friends identify with the former, having even introduced me to that categorization. Found that interesting, given that most of them had anglo-saxon sounding names.
This said, is it a New England thing that only 'latino' types get their young childrens' ears pierced? I, along with most of the girls in my family (not to mention friends) had my ears pierced before I could tie my shoes, and I'm whiter than rice. Also, am originally from around the Great Lakes. The image shown could have been one of me at that age, or any of my young cousins / adopted nieces.
I agree with you on that picture being heartbreaking. I teared up, too. Praying that she didn't suffer.
Regional and class differences
So, even in New England for "white" people, it depends. Generally, the thought is that girls below certain (various) ages don't need makeup, piercings, tattoos, sexy clothing etc. My elderly mother never had her ears pierced, so ear piercing is not even some universal rite of passage here.
So, only Low Class kids
get ear piercings. am interested about the other cultural tags.
(Remember reading a comment earlier about someone being a BU Grad for making assumptions about Boston after four years of living around here.)
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Edited to say that I am interested in the prejudices of folks who were born here. Mark, you intrigue me.
Not a prejudice
Just a Puritanical, Congregational, Methodist, or Lutheran or Quaker or any number of protestant churches teaching of humility and modesty. Jewelry and attention seeking clothing, especially for the very young and innocent is traditionally discouraged. For wasp New Englanders this tends to cut across class lines. My mom came from a working class family in Quincy and many of her contemporaries didn't get their ears pierced until perhaps middle school. Things have relaxed since then, but I still think humility is somewhat valued here.
You realize this isn't an
You realize this isn't an actual photograph of the child.....
Her parents might not even
Her parents might not even know she's gone if they sent here to live with someone else in this area and they are far away.
To that point
maybe someone should ask some of the caseworkers over at DCF if any of their charges are missing, given their habit of losing track of kids in the system.
https://www.bostonglobe.com/metro/2014/02/02/massachusetts-children-unde...
I'm glad I'm not the only one with tears...
She's in my prayers and in my heart - beautiful little angel.
Praying for Everyone Involved.
I measure every Grief I meet
With narrow, probing, eyes –
I wonder if It weighs like Mine –
Or has an Easier size.
I wonder if They bore it long –
Or did it just begin –
I could not tell the Date of Mine –
It feels so old a pain –
I wonder if it hurts to live –
And if They have to try –
And whether – could They choose between –
It would not be – to die –
I note that Some – gone patient long –
At length, renew their smile –
An imitation of a Light
That has so little Oil –
I wonder if when Years have piled –
Some Thousands – on the Harm –
That hurt them early – such a lapse
Could give them any Balm –
Or would they go on aching still
Through Centuries of Nerve –
Enlightened to a larger Pain –
In Contrast with the Love –
The Grieved – are many – I am told –
There is the various Cause –
Death – is but one – and comes but once –
And only nails the eyes –
There’s Grief of Want – and grief of Cold –
A sort they call “Despair” –
There’s Banishment from native Eyes –
In sight of Native Air –
And though I may not guess the kind –
Correctly – yet to me
A piercing Comfort it affords
In passing Calvary –
To note the fashions – of the Cross –
And how they’re mostly worn –
Still fascinated to presume
That Some – are like my own –
- Some Five Colleges Native